HR Management & Compliance

When Good Meetings Go Bad (Hint: It’s Almost All the Time)

Yesterday, we looked at one of author and entrepreneur Jason Fried’s biggest gripes about the modern workplace: Interruptions, including those caused by managers who check in at inopportune times. But those interruptions are small potatoes compared to the most disruptive thing managers tend to do: Call meetings.

“Meetings are just toxic, terrible, poisonous things during the day at work,” Fried says.

Fried made his comments during a recent talk at the TEDxMidwest conference.

“You would never see a spontaneous meeting called by employees; it doesn’t work that way. The manager calls the meeting, so the employees can all come together, and it’s an incredibly disruptive thing to do to people,” he says.


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What if these people are in the middle of something important? It’s unlikely that they’ll all be at a good stopping point right when the meeting starts. He also points out that a one-hour meeting involving ten people is not actually a one-hour meeting: It’s a ten-hour meeting — ten hours of productivity taken from the rest of the organization.

Is it worth it? Very rarely, Fried says. “Meetings are places to go to talk about things you’re supposed to be doing later.” Plus, meetings tend to mushroom into even more meetings and more time wasted.

So what’s the solution? Fried has three suggestions for the modern workforce:

1. No-talk Thursdays. Or even just start with one “no-talk afternoon” per month, Fried suggests. “Giving someone four hours of uninterrupted time is the best gift you can give anybody at work. It’s better than a computer.”


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2. Get passive. Replace active communication (face-to-face discussions and meetings) with more passive forms of communication like email and IM, which can be switched off and therefore allow people to respond on their own schedule.

3. And if you have a meeting coming up… “If you have the power, just cancel that next meeting… Just don’t have it. I don’t mean move it; I mean, erase it from memory — it’s gone. And you’ll find out that everything will be just fine.”

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2 thoughts on “When Good Meetings Go Bad (Hint: It’s Almost All the Time)”

  1. Have you tried no-talk Thursdays? No-meeting Mondays? If so, we’d love to know how it worked out–let us know!

  2. Have you tried no-talk Thursdays? No-meeting Mondays? If so, we’d love to know how it worked out–let us know!

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