Benefits and Compensation

8 Steps to Stop Bullying in Your Workplace

Yesterday’s Advisor featured attorney Allison West’s take on bullying in the workplace. Today, her guidance for dealing with the bully, plus an introduction to the all-compensation-in-one-place website, Compensation.BLR.com.

West, who is principal at Employee Practices Specialists in Pacifica, CA, delivered her suggestions for dealing with bullying in the workplace at the SHRM Employment Law and Legislative Conference, held recently in Washington, D.C.

Here are West’s guidelines for dealing with bullying:

1. Start with Your Culture

  • Be sure that respect is a core value.
  • Teach/reward deliberate acts of kindness and decency.
  • Start zero tolerance for bullying at top levels of management.
  • Walk the talk—Don’t reward bad behavior.
  • Institute a “no jerks at work” rule.
  • Have a policy! Caution: Don’t have a policy if you don’t plan on following it, says West. Include these in your policy:
    • Civility
    • Respect in the workplace
    • Code of conduct
    • Antibullying

2. Insist on Accountability

Tie all aspects of conduct, including bullying, to financial rewards, evaluations, career advancement.

3. Track Turnover

Keep track of turnover statistics by department, manager, and unit.

4. Fine-Tune Hiring

Fine-tune your hiring procedures, says West:

  • Do reference checks with current coworkers, subordinates.
  • Prescreen for professional competence; then focus more on “personal” traits and skills.
  • Ask questions related to team and individual relationships, working style, longevity of subordinates.
  • Involve candidate in some day‐to‐day activities—meals, meetings, etc. as appropriate.
  • Consider a 360 interview panel, perhaps with unrelated departments.
  • Remember, bullies will often hire other bullies!

5. Do Exit Interviews

Don’t be relieved when the target quits—there could be others.

6. Conduct Surveys

Conduct climate/attitude surveys by department or companywide (only if you plan on doing something with the information).

7. Pay Attention

Pay attention and assess the situation(s):

  • Are you on notice, that is, required to take action?
  • Are targets members of protected classes? Remember: Bullies are one step away from being “harassers.”
  • Is the conduct a onetime occurrence or pervasive?
  • Do you find yourself making excuses for the bully (bully is in a position of power, is a rainmaker, creates fear)?
  • Don’t downplay an employee’s complaint or force him/her to confront the bully alone.

Get ADA compliant job descriptions for your jobs with a Free Market Analysis Report. Also receive guidance on how to use our Compensation Analyzer tool to do market analysis, identify internal and external inequities, and track compensation.


8. Follow Basic Rules

Follow these basic rules for training/coaching a bully, says West:

  • Focus on remedial training meant to assist in changing unacceptable behavior.
  • Individual training—group training typically won’t work.
  • Not an investigation interview—it’s not about excuses or the bully’s version of the facts.
  • Bully is often in denial and/or disagrees with the findings.
  • Bully must state reasons for the training.
  • Training should be interactive.
  • Don’t bother training/coaching unless you have specific examples: dates, places, content, conduct.
  • Be direct: “People are afraid of you, staff doesn’t feel safe.”
  • Avoid: “Please be nicer!”
  • Consequences are an absolute must. Bullies won’t change unless motivated.
  • Don’t try to understand why bullies bully—this is not therapy!
  • Give the bully tools to:
    • Change his/her conduct.
    • Be a better communicator.
    • Effectively handle conflict.
  • Give constructive feedback.
  • Make good on threats—Terminate the bully!

Dealing with bullies—just one more daily challenge. If it’s not one thing, it’s another. Like comp surveys, regression analysis, FMLA intermittent leave, overtime hassles, ADA accommodation, and then on top of that, whatever the agencies and courts throw in your way.

Many of the professionals we serve find helpful answers to all their compensation questions at Compensation.BLR.com, BLR’s comprehensive compensation website.

And there’s great news: The site has just been revamped in two important ways. First, compliance-focused information has been updated to include the latest on COBRA, Lilly Ledbetter, and the FMLA. Second, user features are enhanced to make the site even quicker to respond to your particular needs:

  • Topics Navigator—Lets you drill down by topical areas to get to the right data fast.
  • Customizable Homepage—Can be configured to display whatever content you want to see most often.
  • Menu Navigation—Displays all of the main content areas and tools that you need in a simple, easy format.
  • Quick Links—Enables you to quickly navigate to all the new and updated content areas.

The services provided by this unique tool include:

  • Localized Salary Finder. Based on reliable research among thousands of employers, here are pay scales (including 25th, 50th, 75th, and 90th percentiles) for hundreds of commonly held jobs, from line worker to president of the company. The data are customized for your state and metro area, your industry, and your company size, so you can base your salaries on what’s offered in your specific market, not nationally.

Get an ADA compliant job description, grade assignment, rate range for that job, and salary data, all customized for your industry and geography. Better news? It’s FREE. Download Your Free Market Analysis Report.


  • State and Federal Wage-Hour and Other Legal Advice. Plain-English explanations of wage-hour and other compensation and benefits-related law at both federal and state levels. “State” means the laws of your state because the site is customized to your use. (Other states can be added at a modest extra charge.)
  • Job Descriptions. The website provides them by the hundreds, already written, legally reviewed, and compliant with the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) mandate that essential job functions be separated from those less critical. All descriptions carry employment grade levels to current norms—another huge time-saver.
  • Merit Increase, Salary, and Benefits Surveys. The service includes the results of three surveys a year. Results for exempt and nonexempt employees are reported separately.
  • Daily Updates. Comp and benefits news updated daily (as is the whole site).
  • "Ask the Experts" Service. E-mail a question to our editors and get a personalized response within 3 business days.

If we sound as if we’re excited about the program, it’s because we are. For about $3 a working day, the help it offers to those with compensation responsibilities is enormous.

This one’s definitely worth a look, which you can get by clicking the links below.

Click here to get more information or start a no-cost trial and get a complimentary special report!

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *