Benefits and Compensation

When You Should NOT Negotiate and Other Expert Tips

McCabe, who is professor of management at the McDonough School of Business, Georgetown University, offered his negotiating tips at the BLR® HR Strategic Summit, held recently in Scottsdale, Arizona.

When NOT to Negotiate

  • When you have not done your research or are ill-prepared
  • When there is a locus-of-authority issue—that is, when the other party sitting at the table does not have the power to consummate a deal
  • When the other side is obviously bargaining in bad faith or using a multitude of unethical tactics
  • When you have reached your bottom line on one or more issues and more movement downward would place you or your firm in a precarious position

Good-Faith Negotiation

Negotiating in good faith means:

  • Make offers and counteroffers.
  • No stalling, stonewalling, or being late.
  • Make a proactive, sincere effort to reach an agreement.

Note that good faith does not require an individual negotiator to reach a settlement, agree to a specific proposal, or make a specific concession to the other side.

Bad-Faith Negotiation

Bad-faith negotiation involves:

  • Surface, shadow bargaining;
  • Take-it-or-leave-it bargaining; and
  • Utilization of delaying tactics.

Ethical Negotiation Issues

Human resources professionals should always maintain a high level of ethical conduct in negotiations, says McCabe. In particular, do not use such unethical tactics as:

  • Bribery;
  • Pirating of confidential information;
  • Electronic surveillance or “bugging” of caucus rooms;
  • Defaming the other chief negotiator; or
  • Falsification, misrepresentation, and deception.

Consider the line between exaggeration versus outright lying (bluffing, puffing, and exaggerating are acceptable, within limits), says McCabe, but beware. No universal code of conduct for negotiating exists.


Try BLR’s all-in-one compensation website, Compensation.BLR.com®, and get a complimentary special report, Top 100 FLSA Overtime Q&As, no matter what you decide. Find out more.


Cross-Cultural Negotiations

Cross-cultural negotiations are becoming more frequent. To be a successful negotiator, says McCabe, an appreciation of cultural differences is most essential.

  • Become familiar with the history, culture, and customs of the other negotiator. This is paramount. Especially:
    • The issue of time, and
    • The strategic importance of informal socializing.
  • Use intercultural bargaining styles as appropriate.
  • Understand the nature of the contractual agreement.
  • Respect the other side, and make an attempt to adapt.
  • Develop personal, long-term business relationships.
  • Comprehend national sensitivities of the other negotiator.
  • Don’t use American jargon or sports jargon.
  • Understand the concept and importance of saving face.

Negotiating—just one of the many skills compensation managers need to meet the daily challenges of their jobs. “Maintain internal equity and external competitiveness and control turnover, but still meet management’s demands for lowered costs.” Heard that one before?

Many of the professionals we serve find helpful answers to all their compensation questions at Compensation.BLR.com, BLR’s comprehensive compensation website.

And there’s great news! The site has just been revamped in two important ways. First, compliance focus information has been updated to include the latest on COBRA, Lilly Ledbetter, and the FMLA. Second, user features are enhanced to make the site even quicker to respond to your particular needs:

  • Topics Navigator—lets you drill down by topical areas to get to the right data fast.
  • Customizable Home Page—can be configured to display whatever content you want to see most often.
  • Menu Navigation—displays all the main content areas and tools that you need in a simple, easy format.
  • Quick Links—enables you to quickly navigate to all the new and updated content areas.

The services provided by this unique tool include:

  • Localized Salary Finder. Based on reliable research among thousands of employers, here are pay scales (including 25th, 50th, 75th, and 90th percentiles) for hundreds of commonly held jobs, from line worker to president of the company. The data are customized for your state and metro area, your industry, and your company size, so you can base your salaries on what’s offered in your specific market, not nationally.

Compensation.BLR.com, now thoroughly reved with easier navigation and more complete compensation information, will tell you what’s being paid right in your state—or even metropolitan area—for hundreds of jobs. Try it at no cost and get a complimentary special report. Read more.


  • State and Federal Wage-Hour and Other Legal Advice. Plain-English explanations of wage-hour and other compensation- and benefits-related laws at both federal and state levels. “State” means the laws of your state, because the site is customized to your use. (Other states can be added at a modest extra charge.)
  • Job Descriptions. The website provides them by the hundreds, already written, legally reviewed, and compliant with the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) mandate that essential job functions be separated from those less critical. All descriptions carry employment grade levels to current norms—another huge time-saver.
  • Merit Increase, Salary, and Benefits Surveys. The service includes the results of three surveys a year. Results for exempt and nonexempt employees are reported separately.
  • Daily Updates. Comp and benefits news updated daily (as is the whole site).
  • Ask the Experts” Service. E-mail a question to our editors and get a personalized response within 3 business days.

If we sound as if we’re excited about the program, it’s because we are. For about $3 a working day, the help it offers to those with compensation responsibilities is enormous.

This one’s definitely worth a look, which you can get by clicking the links below.

Click here to get more information or start a no-cost trial and get a complimentary special report!

 

1 thought on “When You Should NOT Negotiate and Other Expert Tips”

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *